Tuesday, January 20, 2009

George Carlins wife recently passed away. He posts this food for thought

George Carlins wife recently passed away...he posts this food for thought. Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80'scould write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate.
A wonderful Message by George Carlin:

The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers,

wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints.

We spend more, but have less,
we buy more, but enjoy less.

We have bigger houses  and smaller families,
more conveniences, but less time.

We have more degrees but less sense,
more knowledge, but less judgment,
more experts, yet more problems,
more medicine, but less wellness.

We drink too much, smoke too much,
spend too recklessly, laugh too little,
drive too fast, get too angry,
stay up too late, get up too tired,
read too little, watch TV too much,
and pray too seldom.

We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.

We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.

We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.

We've added years to life not life to years.

We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.

We conquered outer space but not inner space.

We've done larger things, but not better things.

We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.

We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.

We write more, but learn less.

We plan more, but accomplish less.

We've learned to rush, but not to wait.

We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.

These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships.

These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.

These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.

It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.

A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...

 Remember;  spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not
going to be around forever. Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to
 you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is
the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a
cent. Remember, to say, "I love you" to your partner and your loved ones,
but most of all mean it. A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes
from deep inside of you. Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for
someday that person will not be there again. Give time to love, give time
to speak! And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.


AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the
moments that take our breath away.

Too many friends?

Is this possible? According to my daughter, her dad says I have too many friends.

 Too many? Is he jealous that so many people like me over him? Wow...I couldn't think of any other reason that you would tell your daughter that her mom has too many friends.

WOW, JUST WOW!!!

To all my friends, I LOVE YOU!!!

44 things a girl would die for


LADIES: this will make you tear up
GUYS : read it. all of it!


1-touch her WAIST
2-TALK to her
3-share SECRETS
4-give HER your jacket
5-kiss her SLOWLY


ARE YOU REMEMBERING THIS?


6-HUG her
7-HOLD her
8-LAUGH with her
9-invite HER somewhere
10-let her be WITH you when you're with your friends


KEEP READING


11-SMILE with her
12-take PICTURES with her
13-pull her onto your LAP
14-when she says she loves you more, DENY IT. fight back
15-when her FRIENDS say i love her more than you, deny it. fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends. it makes her feel loved


ARE YOU THINKING OF SOMEONE?


16-always hug her and SAY "i love you" when you see her
17-kiss her UNEXPECTEDLY
18-HUG HER FROM BEHIND AROUND THE WAIST! :D
19-tell her shes BEAUTIFUL!
20-TELL her the way you feel about her!


OH AND ONE LAST THING YOU NEED TO SHOW HER YOU MEAN IT


21-Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurt to act like a GENTLEMAN
22-Tell her she means everything to you, but MEAN it
23-if it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means she doesn't want to talk about it- so just HUG her
24-make her FEEL loved
25-kiss her in front of OTHER girls you know!!!!


WE MIGHT DENY IT BUT WE ACTUALLY LIKE AND KINDA WANT YOU TO TICKLE US

26-don't lie to HER.
27-DON'T cheat on her.
28-take her ANYWHERE she wants
29-txt messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you MISS her.
30-be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can ALWAYS count on you.


ARE YOU STILL READING THIS? YOU BETTER BE, IT'S IMPORTANT


31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold YOU too.
32. When you are ALONE hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the CHEEK; (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her LIGHTLY.
35. Dont EVER tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.


REMEMBER ALL THESE THINGS WHEN YOU ARE WITH HER NEXT


36. When people DISS her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her EYES and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the STARS and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart, Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her HAND.
40. When you hug her HOLD her in your arms as long as possible


MAKE SURE SHE KNOWS SHES LOVED


41. Call or text her at night to wish her SWEET DREAMS
42. COMFORT her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for LONG walks at night.
44. ALWAYS Remind her how much you love her.


you..ll never know when she needs just a lil more love

Love Vs. Infatuation (an article by Anne Landers)

I have saved this article by Anne Landers for several years as did the writer who requested it. I think it is a great article for those of us that may be unsure of what we have. I am in love with a wonderful man  who is very caring,  very trusting and treats me with utmost respect. Ron Ferington... I love you with all my heart. I have been in a relationship not long ago where I was cheated on, lied to... there was no trust. And he brags about this on his Myspace. What kind of man would do this? Well...EXACTLY, can't be much of a man, if he's bragging.
Well, for those of you that are interested. Please enjoy it and copy/paste and share if you like. I did not write it... The credit goes to  Anne Landers.


  DEAR ANNE LANDERS: I have been carrying your essay, Is It Love Or Infatuation?" in my wallet for a dozen years. It guided me through three relationships and it helped me recognize the real thing when it came along. Please print it again for those who are unsure.-- S.L. in Boston

DEAR BOSTON: I love playing cupid. What perfect timing! Here's the essay on Valentine's Day. Is It Love Or Infatuation?

      Infatuation is instant desire- one set of glands calling to each other. Love is
friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows,one day at a time.
    Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but
not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits
and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too
closely. It might spoil the dream.
    Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is
real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you-to bolster your beloved.
You are warmed by his presence,even when he is away. Miles do not separate
you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying.
But near or far, you know he is yours and you can wait.
     Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
     Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together
you hope it will end in intimacy. love is not based on sex. it is the maturation of
friendship which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can
be lovers.
    Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's cheating.
Sometimes you check.
    Love means trust. You are calm, secure, and unthreatened. He feels you
trust,and it makes him even more trustworthy.
    Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers
you in the wrong direction. Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up.
It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before.


Imagine Me Without You- LYRICS

Verse 1:
As long as stars shine down from heaven
And the rivers run into the sea
'Til the end of time, forever
You're the only love I'll need
In my life, you're all that matters
In my eyes, the only truth I see
When my hopes and dreams have shattered
You're the one that's there for me

When I found you I was blessed
And I will never leave you
I need you

Chorus:
Imagine me without you
I'd be lost and so confused
I wouldn't last a day
I'd be afraid without you there to see me through
Imagine me without you
Lord, you know it's just impossible
Because of you
It's all brand new
My life is now worth while
I can't imagine me without you

Verse 2:
When you caught me I was falling
Your love lifted me back on my feet
It was like you heard my calling
And you rushed to set me free

When I found you I was blessed
And I will never leave you
I need you

Chorus

When I found you I was blessed
And I will never leave you
I need you

Chorus

I can't imagine me without you